It’s easy to see why so many people worry about growing old and facing health issues and reduced abilities that allow them to live independently. However, physical and mental challenges are all part of aging, and it only makes things more difficult when seniors won’t address their obvious need for elderly care providers.
Family caregivers that worry about their elderly relative’s health and safety want them to have someone around to assist. If their aging loved one won’t admit they need assistance and actively resists the idea, it can be unhealthy, unsafe and even dangerous.
Obstacles Seniors Have About In-Home Care
When their aging loved ones refuse to even converse about in-home care, it can be hard for family caregivers to understand where the resistance is coming from.
Here are just a few issues that may cause seniors to resist in-home care from elderly care providers:
- Denying they are old enough to need help
- Resentful that others are making life decisions for them
- Fear of facing their own mortality, including declining health
- Worry about having strangers in their home
- Discomfort about needing help with showers, baths, and dressing
- Apprehension about the permanent changes on the horizon
- Anxiety over finances and the cost of in-home care
- Pride at always being independent and never needing help from anyone
As they prepare to have the tough conversation, family caregivers must remember to be thoughtful and considerate of their aging relative’s worries and feelings. With a careful and thoughtful approach, they can work together to resolve some of the worst objections of an elderly care provider.
Ideas for Talking with Seniors About In-Home Care
It’s good advice for a family caregiver to take it slow when bringing in an elderly care provider into their aging loved one’s home. Starting the conversation can be hard, but as long as everyone remains calm and tries to focus on the benefits of in-home care, there’s a better chance of the aging adult actually listening. Many people feel that a slow introduction works best, where the elderly are provider comes in for one day per week or a couple of mornings only. They might do some housekeeping or laundry at first, then expand to other things.
Even if the aging adults express their emotions about the new changes, family caregivers must stick with it. That’s because their aging loved one cannot be left on their own. With compassion, empathy, problem-solving and validation, family caregivers will soon see their elderly loved one in good hands with a professional elderly care provider.
If you or an aging loved-one are considering hiring Senior Care in Bala Cynwyd, PA, please contact the friendly staff at Suma Home Care. Call today: 484-200-7347
Ibrahim recently completed a Professional Certificate in Management; He is currently pursuing a Masters in Business Administrations (MBA) at a prestigious university in the UK.
With their passion for helping others and a strong background in customer services and clinical care, Ibrahim and his wife started assisting individuals in their homes.
Since started and operating Suma Home Care in 2010 in the basement of their home, Suma Home Care has provided professionals who work endlessly in providing clients with the highest quality of care, while enabling clients to maintain dignity, comfort and safety in their homes.
Suma Home Care, serves four counties in Pennsylvania, Delaware, Chester, Montgomery and Philadelphia. Ibrahim is firmly connected to his local community and is always looking for ways to give back whenever the opportunity presents itself.
Ibrahim enjoys spending time with his wife and children, travelling and enjoys sports.
Mariama Suma-Keita BSN RN
Born in Sierra Leone west Africa, relocated to America in 1999 from a civil war and settled since in the U.S.A as a Naturalized citizen Graduated from National school of nursing with an associate , and completed BSN in Nursing from Immaculata University graduated with Honor roll Alpha Lambda sigma, After escaping the war served as a refugee nurse in Gambia and Guinea to other displaced refugees before coming to America.
In the states started in Homecare then then transition into hospital, worked in Jefferson hospital as a Registered nurse on Tele and general medsurg floor, also worked in Einstein hospital as an oncology transplant nurse , I realized that I enjoy working with patients so much and believe in quality and compassionate care one at a time dealing with an holistic approach in caring for patients and family in a familiar environment called home , I see the impact and progress when they’re home , it makes them feel relax and progress fast with recovering at home. As a nurse and entrepreneur I understand that dedication to meeting people and families needs is a priority, and able to foster relationships with family and patients that is professional and friendly to help them stay and settled home as a desire.
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